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Third Grade
Help Your Child Find Success
The Department of Defense Education
Activity
(DoDEA) has used research about the development of children and national guidelines to develop expectations, or standards, to guide the education of your child. In laymen's terms, the standards describe what students should know by the end of the third grade. If your child meets these standards, he or she will be on target to meet grade level expectations in other states and school districts. This booklet reflects only some of DoDEA's content standards in the core academic areas. To view the complete standards, please log onto the DoDEA Web page: www.dodea.edu.
Children at this age enjoy
working on hands-on projects that demonstrate their abilities. They easily share
their knowledge with others and work well in groups. Your third grader will be
more sophisticated in the way he or she communicates with others, carrying on
longer conversations with more sentences and details. Your child may read silently,
but still need to sound out new words. Third grade books have more words and
more chapters, as well as more complicated plots and subplots. The math and writing
assignments become progressively more complex, requiring more time at home spent
on school work. Understanding what is expected of a child this age will assist
you in working with your child at home. The more success your child experiences,
the more confidence he or she will have when completing independent and more
complicated tasks. The following tips may be helpful with the overall development
of your child.
Stay Involved
It is most important that you stay involved
and do things with your child. Your third grader will be more social and will
start to value friendships with other children. Establish a weekly time for a
parent/child day out. Your child will cherish the quality memories of sporting
and school events where you were included. You can and will have a direct and positive
impact on his or her academic success if you stay involved.:
Talk with Your Child
In third grade, children define themselves
based on the feedback they get from others. Your child will have interests and
talents which he or she will want to share with you. If your child feels successful,
then he or she will be more apt to try more challenging tasks. Talk with your
child to encourage his or her confidence in learning. He or she needs to feel
recognized for small as well as big successes.
Create a Learning Environment at Home
Your third grader will usually bring
schoolwork home to complete on a regular basis. When he or she first arrives
home from school, he or she may feel tired and want a break. Playing outside
or having a snack before sitting down to complete his or her homework is a good
idea. Creating the right climate for learning is important. Set aside a quite time
and location for your child to complete his or her homework assignments. Help your
child be prepared to work by having the materials needed (e.g., pencils, paper, and books) in a central location. Use a kitchen timer to help your child know when to take a break. Commend your child when he or she shows responsibility in completing the work or going to the study area independently.
Review Homework
Ask your child to share what homework
has been completed. Check for accuracy, and work with your child if you notice
that he or she has difficulties understanding a concept. A good process to follow
is to walk your child through the directions or steps needed, and then have him
or her repeat the directions or steps. Your child will be more motivated if the
two of you work through problems together. Too many parents get into a struggle
with their children over homework. Instead of you taking on the task, let your
child assume responsibility for his or her homework. If you notice that your
child is having significant difficulties, talk with his or her classroom teacher.
Developing Responsibility and Organizational Skills
Schoolwork and homework are your child's responsibility. While it is natural for you to want to rescue your child from feeling stressed or embarrassed by completing his or her work, or "fixing" a
poor job, or delivering forgotten work to school, your help may prevent your
child from learning to accept responsibility for his or her own actions. Instead,
structure a home climate that is both educationally stimulating and supportive
of schoolwork and homework.
Help your child set up a daily routine
when he or she gets home from school. Such a daily routine should include a time
for himself or herself, a time for family, and a time for homework. Structure
the time so that it has few distractions. Help your child organize his or her
work materials and work on one task at a time. (Organizers and folders can help keep things in order.) When he or she finishes assignments, teach your child to put his or her things together or away, and then place his or her completed homework by the front door for the next day.
Use Television Wisely
Research indicates that academic achievement
drops sharply for children who watch more than 10 hours of television a week,
or an average of more than two hours a day. Limit the amount of television your
child watches, and help him or her select programs that are educational and entertaining
for children. You can help make television an educational experience by discussing
the programs with your child. Help him or her understand how the plot was developed,
how the information applies to what he or she is learning at school, and how
the story/plot could be useful in real life.
Physical Activity, Nutrition, and Safety Tips
As a parent, you have an important role in shaping your children’s
physical activity, nutrition, and safety attitudes and behaviors. Help keep them
safe, healthy, and ready to learn. Here are some things you can do.
Make physical activity fun. Fun activities
can be anything the children enjoy, either structured or nonstructured. Activities
may include team sports, individual sports, and recreational activities such
as walking, running, skating, bicycling, swimming, playground activities, and
free-time play. It is recommended that children participate in at least 60 minutes
of moderate-intensity physical activity most days of the week.
Plan your children's snack choices.
Check the nutrition labels on foods. Food products marketed as low-fat can still
be high in calories from sugar.
Create a safe home and community
environment. Teach your children water-safety rules. Even if they know how to
swim, never let your children swim without supervision.