Schedule an Appointment
If you are going to a meeting that was scheduled by the teacher or school, ask before hand how much time you will have. If you will need more time or want to meet with the teacher again let the teacher know at the beginning of the meeting.
Talk to Your Child
Find out what your child thinks are their best and least favorite subjects and be sure to find out why they feel this way. Also, ask if there is anything your child would like you to ask the teacher.
Let your child know that the meeting between you and the teacher is to help them in school, that way they don't worry about the meeting. If your child is in middle or high school you may want to think about including them in the conference.
Create a List
Write down a list of questions, issues or concerns that you have for the teacher.
Some additional things to keep in mind to discuss with the teacher:
- Questions about progress
- How you, the teacher, and the school can work together to help your child
- Questions about the school's programs or policies
- Your child's home life, personality, concerns, habits and hobbies, and other things you feel the teacher should know about that might help in working with your child (e.g. transitioning to a new school, parent deployed, part-time jobs, a sick relative, religious holidays, music lessons, etc.).
Remember the Objective
Parents and teachers have common goals. They both want children to succeed and progress at a rate where they can take control of their own learning. While students learn in the classroom, that learning is reinforced at home with the parent.
Remember that teachers, just like you, want your child to succeed. This will help you put a better perspective on what the teacher says about your child.